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[(Anonymous)]

Lesbian/Male Rapist Who Makes Her Beg For It

Ugh, looks like that RedRumRaver is signing up for Chocolate Box with their homophobic shit. Not enough for them to try and traumatize Yuletiders, was it? They're every bit as bad as heeroluva and aquatics.

[(Anonymous)]

It’s still Yuletide. Wait for your CB wank or take it to FFA, friend.

[(Anonymous)]

You should boycott the exchange for enabling them!

[(Anonymous)]

You can fuck right the fuck off.

[(Anonymous)]

hi, redrumraver

[(Anonymous)]

but butts tho

[(Anonymous)]

Quit butting in!

[(Anonymous)]

Lesbian Whose Hymen Is Still Intact/Male Rapist Who Makes Her Beg For It would be even hotter.

[(Anonymous)]

What is this, sex ed from the 90s?

[(Anonymous)]

Hymens don't actually work that way.

[(Anonymous)]

Nah, must be someone else. Last time I was looking for people to treat, redrumraver was DNWing lesbian's getting off from sex with guys. Doubt she'd nominate a pairing that was angling for forced orgasm.

[(Anonymous)]

I wish fiction on the internet was even close to the biggest thing to traumatize me.

[(Anonymous)]

Ahaha nice of you to admit it really is alllllll about the kink shaming for you and not about letter etiquette as you claimed. A+

[(Anonymous)]

LOL right?? Nice of them to come clean at last.

[(Anonymous)]

There wasn’t only one person in those threads. The majority but not all said they didn’t have a problem with the kink. No one was lying, except for you, now.

[(Anonymous)]

well if this kink's ok then why all the wank about heeroluva then? surely his kink is ok then!

[(Anonymous)]

It's a kink. Deal with it, or find/start and exchange that only allows vanilla sex.

[(Anonymous)]

Or make that Canon Gay Only exchange where its all mlm and wlw with no problematic het to bother you. Only messy homosexual kinks there!

[(Anonymous)]

if it;s a kink, where's all the gay person raping straight person kink then? if someone dared to ask for that you'd all be screaming up and down with wank

[(Anonymous)]

Or they can complain about whatever they want without any obligation to do anything about it.

[(Anonymous)]

I'm not an anti or an "all kink is bad" sort of person, but man, the attitude that kinks can't be criticized AT ALL is equally annoying.

[(Anonymous)]

The replies to this... good lord. You guys really can't tell the difference between kinkshaming and calling out bigotry, can you? I'm going to go a step further than the people who were saying this sort of thing needs to be confined to letters. It's just not okay in a general exchange, full stop. There is a line when someone's kink starts hurting others, and this crosses it. This is bigotry. You can't really stop people from having this as a kink, but you can stop them from bandying it about in an environment where people may not be expecting to come across this sort of content. Yeah, okay, "choose not to warn" is a thing, but there's a difference in scale between how we apply that rule. Scrolling AO3 and finding a fic marked chose not to warn? That's on you if you click it. But scrolling an exchange tagset and finding something like this? The whole foundation of an exchange is community and reciprocity. Exchanges are not places for throwing around bigotry like it's just another kink, just another trope. Real people are harmed by the fact that there are people who consider this a kink. It's really not hard to have a "no homophobia" rule on a moderated exchange. And it's really not a wicked kinkshaming anti opinion to call out the person who requested it and the exchange mods for letting it happen, and to say that kinking out on bigotry should have no place in communal fandom.

OP, keep it real. I hope our paths cross one day. The rest of you can go to hell.

[(Anonymous)]

fanfiction isn't real

[(Anonymous)]

I don't have a problem with kink-based exchanges in general but I hate how most exchanges these days have an Original Works option where you can just nominate whatever specific kink configuration you have and completely ignore actual existing fandoms. Save that stuff for original work exchanges, ffs.

[(Anonymous)]

I'll be honest, I try to be kinktomato and all, but I did think "ew" a bunch of times while going through the OW ships. It jus makes me uncomfortable when you can easily tell that a number of noms are coming from the same person with a fixation.