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It's a kink. Deal with it, or find/start and exchange that only allows vanilla sex.

Or make that Canon Gay Only exchange where its all mlm and wlw with no problematic het to bother you. Only messy homosexual kinks there!

What makes you think Wanky Coalie actually cares about lesbian characters?

The emphasis on homophobia being the problematic thing and not that it is rape/noncon regardless of the rapist or victim’s sexuality...

Misogyny is only a problem if it intersects with another axis of oppression.

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That's just because it's easier to bash in mostly kink-friendly places like coal. Noncon is wroooooooong gets you laughed out of court. If you frame it as homophobic rape getting sent to people's inboxed, you get a lot more bites.

We're all anon here so it's hard to prove, but I would bet real money that most of the people complaining have never written or requested any f/f at all (unlike redrum, who has requested, received and written f/f works).

if it;s a kink, where's all the gay person raping straight person kink then? if someone dared to ask for that you'd all be screaming up and down with wank

*pats* you have to work harder to make up a fake kink
lesbian preying on straight girl and gay guy preying on straight guy (especially if the guy is homophobic!) is a common kink
how have you never encountered this?

DC

Haven't seen these in the wild and noncon isn't usually my bag, but that "especially if the guy is homophobic" one? Would read.

See, I like noncon but I definitely wouldn't read that. It squicks me when it's framed as the victim deserving it (by being homophobic or otherwise bad).

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Male Hypnotist/Straight Male Victim (original work)
Male Incubus/Straight Male Victim (original work)

A short search for straight found these in the chocolatebox tagset. Now what?

Aww, shit, this sounds hot. I hope this gets written!

Converting Straight Guys and Turning Into A Lesbian are both the biggest gay porn categories on any porn site lol is this parody?

If they ever come back, they'll claim that's homophobic too, I bet.

“gay for you” is like the backbone of the whole east asian BL market. its more rare to find actual gay/bi characters than GFY.

Yeah, I think Thai BL is getting a bit better in that respect (Pete from LBC identifying as gay from the start, Mean's character in UWMA saying he's bi even though he's a momentary love rival obstacle), but it's still there in BL media and it sucks.

Not going to lie, it was a letdown in MODC that Xiang Haoting gets a girlfriend after the time skip and he says that Yu Xigu was the only one he's loved and he won't date any other boys... I try to be fair and see him as bi and still heartbroken, but on a narrative level, it's unfortunate. :/

Nonconathon tagset has a ton too!

Amoral Androgynous Lesbian noncons Flirty Straight Girl in Gay Bar (F/F)
Jealous Bridesmaid noncons Straight Bride
MILF noncons Straight Underage Camgirl Next Door

There were a ton of those in the Consent Issues tagset.

I've been asking for that in porn exchanges for years, and no one wanked about it yet.

NC

I realize this wasn't the point but I want that now

Or they can complain about whatever they want without any obligation to do anything about it.

I'm not an anti or an "all kink is bad" sort of person, but man, the attitude that kinks can't be criticized AT ALL is equally annoying.

Why is it that every time someone says "I'm not an anti" it's followed by a statement that makes them sound like an anti?

Because once THERE’RE NO RULES!!! seeps into your brain as the reigning principle, anyone who tells you to put your pants back on—or even says pants should be worn and they’re not interested in seeing your bits—sounds like The Man, and obviously The Man can’t be right about anything, there are no rules!

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Why is it that some people don't realize that "anti" and "all kink is sacred and holy and beyond criticism" are not the only two options?

I don't care if you write non-con or underage or whatever, but I think it's silly that people here and on FFA are perfectly willing to criticize anything unless you admit you're horny for it at which point it becomes untouchable.