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coalie ([personal profile] coalcube) wrote in [community profile] coaltide2024-01-08 07:56 am
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Offseason #5

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Re: what makes a good egg to you

(Anonymous) 2024-02-08 06:24 pm (UTC)(link)
> 15. Share the link to your stories with your social media in the anon period.

Eh, I'm not very active on social media and don't really notice/care if my recip has social media. Like if you like the work and wanna share it, absolutely do, but I wouldn't think not doing it is bad? And some people don't have social media or have it connected to their real name or something so they wouldn't want to share fic there

Re: what makes a good egg to you

(Anonymous) 2024-02-08 07:33 pm (UTC)(link)
I mean these aren't things where not doing them makes you a bad recip? They're things where if you do them, it's extra great.

(Also very few people with no fandom social media get on Good Egg lists. I'm not saying that's fair, but being a person who exists in fandom outside AO3 helps generally.)

Re: what makes a good egg to you

(Anonymous) 2024-02-08 07:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Most of the people I'd put on my personal good egg list I only know through ao3 and discord.

Of course, I don't maintain fandom socmed presence, so...

Re: what makes a good egg to you

(Anonymous) 2024-02-08 07:39 pm (UTC)(link)
I count Discord as fannish social media these days (and my fandom discords' recs channels are always full of people linking their exchange gifts...)

Re: what makes a good egg to you

(Anonymous) 2024-02-08 07:42 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't even know how to find fandom discords that aren't full of wank or teens so I just do ead.

Re: what makes a good egg to you

(Anonymous) 2024-02-08 07:52 pm (UTC)(link)
Do people not rec gifts on EAD? I don't go there because whenever I look it seems like it's full of wank.

(Unfortunately my answer there is "get involved in other fandom social spaces until someone knows you well enough to tell you about the good discords" which is kind of catch-22 if the reason you want discords is you can't stand other social spaces. Although sometimes going on the big discords full of wank and teens works for that, if you can stand *them* long enough to get to know the sane people.)

Re: what makes a good egg to you

(Anonymous) 2024-02-08 07:59 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't really see that much wank in EAD. There's some people I can't stand but that happens everywhere and I just mute those channels or block them.

As for reccing there, there's always some "my gift is so good" after reveals in individual channels but that's also easy to tune out.

Re: what makes a good egg to you

(Anonymous) 2024-02-08 07:59 pm (UTC)(link)
NC

I don't do fandom on my socials, other than AO3. Not at all.