And another one!

[coalcube]

I see my nemesis getting a fic that I love
And I'm like, "Fuck you" 
I guess my 10k letter wasn't enough
I'm like, "Fuck you and fuck morbane, too"
Said, "If I was a long commenter, they woulda gamed for me"
Ha, now ain't that some shit?
(Ain't that some shit?)
And although there's pain in my chest
I still comment it's the best
And runs to coal to shout "Fuck you" 

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

yeah and i am a gay male. gay men can’t tell lesbians what’s lesbophobic and lesbians can’t tell gay men what’s homophobic against gay men. last i checked homophobes don’t think anal is a lesbian thing. they think it’s only gay men doing it and it’s dirty and hurts and there’s shit everywhere, like a lot of posts on this bullshit thread seem to think. and that it’s more extreme than straight sex. no one would have blinked if a woman said she was in bed with her husband or something, because that’s normal right? but suddenly if it’s two men it’s oversharing

[(Anonymous)]

Sir this is a Wendy's

[(Anonymous)]

no this is a fic exchange. where half the fics are gonna have gay sex in them. but i guess fiction isn’t reality and anal is one of those things that’s only okay in fiction. great. whatever.

[(Anonymous)]

You know this will shock you but I wouldn't think it any less weird if they said "please don't describe how deep the penis goes into the vagina I've had plenty of vaginal sex and it's really not pleasurable."

[(Anonymous)]

You are misreading this situation very badly and have worked yourself up to be outraged for outrage's sake.

[(Anonymous)]

yeah it’s almost like when people make fun of someone admitting they do anal it feels kind of personal and fucking homophobic

[(Anonymous)]

Admitting? It's not a confession of sins, it's just oversharing. Have you considered that you're the one bringing your own issues into it if you think it's is making fun of someone having anal sex?

[(Anonymous)]

Get a grip of that main character syndrome about how this thread is persecuting you personally.

[(Anonymous)]

DA

I don't think they are misreading this thread that much judging by the odd 'any mention of an actual body or real life emotion would make me just as unconfee as mentioning anal sex' comments. Like c'mon coalies don't blow smoke up my ass this hard and then pretend you don't have a hang up about butt stuff.

[(Anonymous)]

I guess you never saw all the wanks we had in the past about people talking about how they were peculiar about [non sexual thing] because of their personal experiences?

"Don't overshare" and "don't explain your DNWs" are things people being up over and over again. People are just not interested in justifications why you DNW the things you DNW. You don't get an exception because it's butt stuff.

[(Anonymous)]

tell me you weren’t around _coal for pesha wank without telling me you weren’t around _coal for pesha wank

[(Anonymous)]

Newsflash: lots of straight people have anal sex too.

If I talked in my letter about the anal and vaginal sex I've had, it would also be gross oversharing.

[(Anonymous)]

all they said was they do it. but i guess admitting it is so nsfw and we should all be ashamed about having sex. ok

[(Anonymous)]

It has nothing to do with being ashamed of sex. It would also be oversharing if they talked about their personal experiences with pet death or that they love it when half of their ship gives the other half roses and cooks for them because that's what their RL partner does for them. Oversharing isn't limited to NSFW things.

[(Anonymous)]

and i know straight people do it but it’s not like anyone’s saying straight people are all sodomites and that’s why they’re gross and dangerous. some people still think only gays do anal. the same kind of person who thinks it’s shamefull and gross

[(Anonymous)]

Some people are both stupid and homophonic, yes. Which has nothing to do with this discussion.

Don't mention details about your personal life in your exchange letter, period. This isn't limited to sex life, it also includes health, job, romance etc. not because it's shameful, but because you're forcing someone to find out things about you they have no business of knowing and never signed up for.

[(Anonymous)]

Are the homophobic straights in the room with us right now?

[(Anonymous)]

Good thing no one's doing it here, then.

[(Anonymous)]

Okay. If I can say what is lesbophobic it's lesbophobic (and deeply stupid) to act like anal is some special gay men thing and that wanring to hear about it or not is about gay men. Lesbians do anal too.

I have no idea if the letter writer is a gay man or a straight woman or a lesbian or non binary. I think it's mildly oversharing to talk about your own sex life to a stranger who just wants to write you a damn fic, not think about you having sex, whatever your orientation and gender. But in terms of someone having poor understanding of social context and norms, and no real big deal.

But mostly, I think *you* are being a wanker.

[(Anonymous)]

yet another example of why fragile baby its-all-about-me look at me i'm a man types should be banned from fandom

[(Anonymous)]

fr fr

[(Anonymous)]

Someone's diaper is full of butt stuff.

[(Anonymous)]

ban men

[(Anonymous)]

NC My days of thinking men always make everything about them are certainly coming to a middle.

[(Anonymous)]

I haven't checked whether the letter writer is male, female, NB, straight or gay or anything in between, because this is funnier if they remain Schrondinger's yuletider.