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coalie ([personal profile] coalcube) wrote in [community profile] coaltide2025-09-13 02:19 pm
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Re: Mod Cabal

(Anonymous) 2025-09-24 10:08 am (UTC)(link)
- i can't believe "this person tried too hard to follow my instructions" is being claimed as a reason for an EPH. you really can't please everyone no matter what you do [note: 18 +1 emoji reacts]

This isn't the most egregious line but I'm just stuck on those 18 +1 emoji reacts. That's the kind of echo chamber BS that would make me quit exchanges if I found out about this as the recipient (especially without knowing who the 18 mods are exactly). Or quit modding exchanges if I joined that server and discovered this kind of wanky rubbernecking about myself or a friend.

I'm really disappointed that there wasn't more pushback against this.

Re: Mod Cabal

(Anonymous) 2025-09-24 10:32 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not even the recipient but reading that did really sour me on exchanges as a whole if this kind of echo chamber, which is obviously hostile to participants and considers them base line nuisances and has no shame about expressing it, is organizing them.

Re: Mod Cabal

(Anonymous) 2025-09-24 11:54 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah it makes it feel like mods run things for social clout and not for any other reason you’d think to run an exchange.

But, not all of as are in the server. I mod like one regular exchange and a few flash ones and I’m not in it. I suspect most mods who run multiple regular exchanges a year are probably in it, but those of us who aren’t career mods are more likely to be left out.

Re: Mod Cabal

(Anonymous) 2025-09-24 08:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Or you're thought to be in the server already. Or someone you know or has brushed shoulders with you hasn't thought to invite you. Someone's exclusion is not malicious, nonnie.

Re: Mod Cabal

(Anonymous) 2025-09-25 07:54 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, fuck this shit.

Re: Mod Cabal

(Anonymous) 2025-09-25 07:59 am (UTC)(link)
Amusingly, we're down to 17 reacts now. Someone is reading this and sweating.