Re: Bulletproof Exchange

(Anonymous) 2022-01-02 08:26 pm (UTC)(link)
CYRT

I consider myself corrected. Was I thinking of kink lucky dip?

To be fair, I think rejecting in this exchange is a bit much. Don't sign up if you really don't actually "bulletproof" tropes that you will read regardless of any other context. You sign up with the understanding that you'd be into anything with only a tiny amount of DNWs!

Re: Bulletproof Exchange

(Anonymous) 2022-01-03 03:42 am (UTC)(link)
dc

I half agree, but I think it goes both ways on assuming good faith. Authors should gift whatever they want as long as it hits one of the bulletproof tropes and doesn't hit dnws. Recips should assume best intentions from the author, but reject whatever they don't want, and authors shouldn't take that badly if it happens. No hard feelings either way.

Re: Bulletproof Exchange

(Anonymous) 2022-01-03 05:59 am (UTC)(link)
+1

I think that's the intended spirit of the thing. If you as an author are going to be mad at someone for refusing a gift, then this is not the exchange for you. It's an adventure for both recipient and author.