Don't Stop Coal Now!

[coalcube]

Tonight I'm gonna have myself a real coal time
I feel alive
And the exchange I'll turn it inside out, yeah
I'm floating around in agony
So, (don't stop me now)
(Don't stop me)
'Cause I'm having a coal time, having a coal time~


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Re: Oops

[(Anonymous)]

Wow, what an asshole.

It's not a bug with this bullshit that to 'protect' people against these sexist stereotypes, that you have reinforced and codified those same sexist stereotypes that you hate so much.

Re: Oops

[(Anonymous)]

What about "you need to be (fe)male to be a (wo)man" is a sexist stereotype?

Re: Oops

[(Anonymous)]

The whole idea of two genders requires those sexist stereotypes to work. When bigots attack cis/trans women who aren't feminine enough for going into the women's bathroom they aren't doing it because they know those women's genitals or chromosomes it's all based on visual sexist stereotypes set by the existing male power structure you claim to hate.

It's a feature of your bigotry.

Re: Oops

[(Anonymous)]

DO you not understand that humans are a sexually dimorphic species? It has nothing to do with women or men being "feminine" or not.

Re: Oops

[(Anonymous)]

And yet, the whole idea of two genders requires those sexist stereotypes to work. When bigots attack cis/trans women who aren't feminine enough for going into the women's bathroom they aren't doing it because they know those women's genitals or chromosomes or sexual dimorphic species it's all based on visual sexist stereotypes set by the existing male power structure you claim to hate.

It's a feature of your bigotry.

Re: Oops

[(Anonymous)]

Ah yes, the old I have no actual answer to a comment I didn't bother to read properly as I don't like their opinion, so I'll just c/p an earlier comment even though contextually it makes no sense as a response

Re: Oops

[(Anonymous)]

If anything you said actually refuted any part of what I wrote, I'd say something different. But you're just giving me science words that you don't understand or conspiracy shit that doesn't make sense.

The fact that your bigoted views reenforce and codify the sexist stereotypes you claim to hate and help harm all women is a big fucking flaw in your 'protect' anything line of bullshit.

Re: Oops

[(Anonymous)]

The fact that you're derailing a conversation about whether or not it's ok to gift unrequested trans fic in an exchange by repeatedly bring up irrelevant matters and trying to guilt trip people by reminding them that trans people can be treated horrifically by bigots makes you a wanker and an asshole of the highest order. Men and women have different experiences in the way they are raised thanks to societal biases, trans people are not exempt from that, though they face different issues. If someone requests a gender swap and doesn't specify a trans character, they' re wanting a fic based on the life the character would have based on the requested gender. The abuse and bigotry faced by trans people IRL is not relevant at all to the question when it's about fulfilling a request for someone

Re: Oops

[(Anonymous)]

LOL, you skipped right past the bullshit 'trans people are a secret cabal' comment in this sub-thread just to come over and finger wag your fake concern for trans people at me.

I feel so honored. Thank you.

Re: Oops

[(Anonymous)]

Also, just a heads up, coal doesn't gave a fuck about staying on topic.

This sub-thread isn't even about exchange fics.

Re: Oops

[(Anonymous)]

No, anon, the existence of two sexes does not require sexist roles and expectations built up around those sexes. Feminism, being a movement for female liberation, is in fact trying to dismantle sexist expectations and limitations placed on women (the female members of the species) simply because they are women (the female members of the species).

Re: Oops

[(Anonymous)]

Believing ONLY two genders exist, like the comment I was replying to, does require those existing sexist stereotypes to function. It's how we currently separate the sexes in our male dominated societies and it's also a feature of this way of thinking as well.

If your feminism isn't all about forcing people to be squeezed into a pink or blue box so you can pretend you're 'protecting' women, then great. I'm not talking about you.

Re: Oops

[(Anonymous)]

I don't believe in gender identity at all.

I'm not sure where these feminists who believe in 'pink or blue box[es]' are that you're arguing with. Feminism doesn't support gender roles for women.