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coalie ([personal profile] coalcube) wrote in [community profile] coaltide2021-12-24 07:37 pm
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Don't Stop Coal Now!

Tonight I'm gonna have myself a real coal time
I feel alive
And the exchange I'll turn it inside out, yeah
I'm floating around in agony
So, (don't stop me now)
(Don't stop me)
'Cause I'm having a coal time, having a coal time~


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Re: Dear Recipient,

(Anonymous) 2021-12-30 02:32 pm (UTC)(link)
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Exchange etiquette is to comment before author reveals, which are still a few days away.

I agree it's not a great act of stalking to check your recip's other gifts, but if it's going to make you (general you) spiral to see they commented on other gifts and not yours *when it's before author reveals* that is a you problem.

Maybe they meant to comment on both gifts on the 25th but ran out of time or had something come up. Maybe the other exchange opened earlier in the morning when they were free and they've been busier since. Maybe they liked the other gift less so it was easier to write a comment, whereas they wanted to give yours the attention it deserved (OP did say they eventually came back and left TWO comments).