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coalie ([personal profile] coalcube) wrote in [community profile] coaltide2021-11-03 07:31 pm
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Re: Brainstorm Help Thread

(Anonymous) 2021-11-06 10:35 am (UTC)(link)
Coal, I have an emotionally abusive f/f ship, what are some ways a BDSM sex scene between them could go off the rails? Preference for the abuser being the domme, though I could also see the abusive party demanding the other woman act as a service top then harshly criticizing her.

Re: Brainstorm Help Thread

(Anonymous) 2021-11-06 11:38 am (UTC)(link)
There is the obvious one of ignoring the safeword, but also introducing new things without previous discussion (blindfold/restraints/being left alone) or stopping the other person from using their safeword (gagging them and then not giving them another way to safeword for example). Skirting a little too close to a hard limit so as to make the other panic and think they're going to go over that line and then make fun of them for thinking that. Or one safewords and the other tells them how disappointed/angry it makes them until the other party feels so guilty that they tell them to keep going.

Re: Brainstorm Help Thread

(Anonymous) 2021-11-06 01:01 pm (UTC)(link)
yeah, forcing consent is a good one!

Re: Brainstorm Help Thread

(Anonymous) 2021-11-06 09:51 pm (UTC)(link)
+1000 for leaving the sub alone when that hadn’t been discussed ahead of time. It would be incredibly stressful and easily leads to punishment for disobeying and gaslighting.

“How dare you move/take off the blindfold/speak? I only left you for a minute.”

Re: Brainstorm Help Thread

(Anonymous) 2021-11-06 11:56 am (UTC)(link)

Metaconsent is already into RACK territory and it can go off the rails easily with a bad actor who insists "but you AGREED. don't you TRUST ME? then ACT like you TRUST me!".

You could also go with a narcissistic sub weaponizing "the aftercare you did was WRONG and HURT ME BADLY, how could you possibly not READ MY MIND about it" hours or days after the fact. especially after the domme went either went with the usual or did exactly as the sub requested.

You could also go with either party as the villain here:

  1. Couple talks about new thing abusee wants to try
  2. Couple does Thing
  3. After doing and enjoying Thing, abuser goes all "how could you even suggest that to me, you should KNOW BETTER"

Ime expectations of mind reading plus gaslighting are done less often in fic than pushing/ignoring boundaries

Re: Brainstorm Help Thread

(Anonymous) 2021-11-06 10:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Man, I hope you're writing for me.