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coalie ([personal profile] coalcube) wrote in [community profile] coaltide2020-01-01 04:21 pm
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Offseason #1

Use this post for any exchanges running from January onwards into the first quarter of the year. Try to keep final Yuletide thoughts in the last coal post of 2019 for ease of conversation.

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(Anonymous) 2020-01-14 07:20 pm (UTC)(link)
How are they racist?

/coalie who hasn't read any fics yet but enjoyed the film

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(Anonymous) 2020-01-14 07:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Maybe they don't like the Ransom/Blanc fic and how it treats Marta? /unsure

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(Anonymous) 2020-01-15 12:46 am (UTC)(link)
dc

I'm pretty sure I stumbled on at least one fic where Marta broke out into speaking Spanish mid-fucking, and it was terrible and cringeworthy.

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(Anonymous) 2020-01-15 12:59 am (UTC)(link)
NC

...That's what qualifies as "racist" to you? It's just a typical badfic cliché when it comes to ANY character -- white or not -- when speaking another language than their native one and having sex.

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(Anonymous) 2020-01-15 01:37 am (UTC)(link)
DC

It can be both racist and a cliché.

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(Anonymous) 2020-01-15 02:20 am (UTC)(link)
+100

Hockey fandom not being able to handle having a Mexican fave was the straw that broke the camels back for me.

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(Anonymous) 2020-01-15 05:48 am (UTC)(link)
I hope you're not calling Matthews Mexican and are in fact thinking of someone else, although IDK who that would be.

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(Anonymous) 2020-01-15 08:00 pm (UTC)(link)
He is. “Of partial Mexican descent on his mother’s side” is not how a mixed person in the US is living their life.

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(Anonymous) 2020-01-16 06:27 am (UTC)(link)
cyrt

No, but "Latino" or "Latinx" if you prefer or "Mexican-American" are all fine descriptors. I guess you didn't mean it this way, but when someone refers to a person who was born and lived all his life in the US as "Mexican," that comes across as xenophobic to me, like telling people to "go back to your country" when they were born here. FWIW.

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(Anonymous) 2020-01-15 05:02 am (UTC)(link)
Perhaps, but in this case it's just a cliché plain and simple. I'm sure you don't cry RACISM!!!!!!1 when it's a white character lapsing into French or whatever, right?

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(Anonymous) 2020-01-15 05:12 am (UTC)(link)
The dynamics between a random French character and a Latina character of unconfirmed origins because everyone she interacts with names a different country while threatening to get her mother departed are so completely, obviously different that this ignorance is exactly what makes you and every shitty porn writer who buys into it racist.

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(Anonymous) 2020-01-16 12:02 am (UTC)(link)
NC

Nah.

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(Anonymous) 2020-01-16 01:54 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, no, people like you are the true racists here. You claim an extremely common cliché can only be used for white people, because otherwise something-something-SJW. That sort of exclusion and special treatment is what's fucked up here, nothing else.

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(Anonymous) 2020-01-15 12:47 am (UTC)(link)
op

I'm more annoyed about how everybody seems to want to fuck the racist xenophobic dude who [spoiler spoiler spoiler], and also wants Marta to fuck that dude too despite all of that.

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(Anonymous) 2020-01-15 02:55 am (UTC)(link)
DC

Fair enough. I get protagonist/bad boy ships, but fluffy Marta/Ransom is a bridge too far for me.

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(Anonymous) 2020-01-15 04:18 am (UTC)(link)
Oh okay so they ship something you don't, and that makes them totally racist. Got it!

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(Anonymous) 2020-01-15 05:50 am (UTC)(link)
lol +1. And it's not even anything about the treatment of the character in the fics, which I imagine is sometimes pretty bad, it's the fact of the ship itself.

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(Anonymous) 2020-01-15 02:00 pm (UTC)(link)
yeah well the ship is Canonically Racist Xenophobic White Guy/The POC He Tried To Kill And Frame For Murder so you'll forgive me for not liking it very much

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(Anonymous) 2020-01-15 06:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Anyone would forgive you for not liking it very much. What makes you a ridiculous asshole is the fact that you go around saying that those who do like it, are racist.

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(Anonymous) 2020-01-15 08:46 pm (UTC)(link)
Typical anti behavior. They no doubt believe that anyone shipping characters with an age difference are pedophiles as well.

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(Anonymous) 2020-01-15 09:57 pm (UTC)(link)
+1

There's little more annoying than largely-white assholes declaring ships with people of color off-limits because shipping them makes you racist when they're perfectly bog-standard fannish tropes. Thanks for making it even harder to ship those characters, asshole.

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Actually -

(Anonymous) 2020-01-17 12:43 pm (UTC)(link)
OP/discourse instigator here.

You know what upon further thought (and reading the stuff y'all said) you're all right. I've been a tremendous jerk about this. There was absolutely no call for me making a judgement on ships like that. People should be allowed to ship what they want, my personal preferences and opinions shouldn't come into that.

I try to make it a point not to make dumb comments like this so I'm kind of disgusted at my own behavior. I will make an effort to stay in my lane next time and also not make judgmental comments! My sincere apologies.

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(Anonymous) 2020-01-16 06:56 am (UTC)(link)
Well, at least I can avoid you now, so thanks for the anonfail.

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(Anonymous) 2020-01-16 08:50 am (UTC)(link)
Please tell me who.

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(Anonymous) 2020-01-16 10:29 pm (UTC)(link)
I would very much like to avoid this person too, so please tell us who they are. If you for whatever reason want to protect them, then I could give you a sock email? I'd just really prefer to never interact with them; I've dealt with enough antis in my fandoms already. Thanks in advance, coalie!

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