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coalie ([personal profile] coalcube) wrote in [community profile] coaltide2020-01-01 04:21 pm
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Offseason #1

Use this post for any exchanges running from January onwards into the first quarter of the year. Try to keep final Yuletide thoughts in the last coal post of 2019 for ease of conversation.

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Re: Fandoms to Nom for 2020 Exchanges

(Anonymous) 2020-01-15 12:47 am (UTC)(link)
op

I'm more annoyed about how everybody seems to want to fuck the racist xenophobic dude who [spoiler spoiler spoiler], and also wants Marta to fuck that dude too despite all of that.

Re: Fandoms to Nom for 2020 Exchanges

(Anonymous) 2020-01-15 02:55 am (UTC)(link)
DC

Fair enough. I get protagonist/bad boy ships, but fluffy Marta/Ransom is a bridge too far for me.

Re: Fandoms to Nom for 2020 Exchanges

(Anonymous) 2020-01-15 04:18 am (UTC)(link)
Oh okay so they ship something you don't, and that makes them totally racist. Got it!

Re: Fandoms to Nom for 2020 Exchanges

(Anonymous) 2020-01-15 05:50 am (UTC)(link)
lol +1. And it's not even anything about the treatment of the character in the fics, which I imagine is sometimes pretty bad, it's the fact of the ship itself.

Re: Fandoms to Nom for 2020 Exchanges

(Anonymous) 2020-01-15 02:00 pm (UTC)(link)
yeah well the ship is Canonically Racist Xenophobic White Guy/The POC He Tried To Kill And Frame For Murder so you'll forgive me for not liking it very much

Re: Fandoms to Nom for 2020 Exchanges

(Anonymous) 2020-01-15 06:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Anyone would forgive you for not liking it very much. What makes you a ridiculous asshole is the fact that you go around saying that those who do like it, are racist.

Re: Fandoms to Nom for 2020 Exchanges

(Anonymous) 2020-01-15 08:46 pm (UTC)(link)
Typical anti behavior. They no doubt believe that anyone shipping characters with an age difference are pedophiles as well.

Re: Fandoms to Nom for 2020 Exchanges

(Anonymous) 2020-01-15 09:57 pm (UTC)(link)
+1

There's little more annoying than largely-white assholes declaring ships with people of color off-limits because shipping them makes you racist when they're perfectly bog-standard fannish tropes. Thanks for making it even harder to ship those characters, asshole.

Re: Fandoms to Nom for 2020 Exchanges

(Anonymous) 2020-01-16 02:02 am (UTC)(link)
Agreed. I'm so fucking sick of this mentality. Last fandom I was in people got shit from assholes like this when they wrote the POC bottoming to the white one, because that was of course totally racist.

Re: Fandoms to Nom for 2020 Exchanges

(Anonymous) 2020-01-16 05:50 am (UTC)(link)
yep, i've been in fandoms like this too.

Actually -

(Anonymous) 2020-01-17 12:43 pm (UTC)(link)
OP/discourse instigator here.

You know what upon further thought (and reading the stuff y'all said) you're all right. I've been a tremendous jerk about this. There was absolutely no call for me making a judgement on ships like that. People should be allowed to ship what they want, my personal preferences and opinions shouldn't come into that.

I try to make it a point not to make dumb comments like this so I'm kind of disgusted at my own behavior. I will make an effort to stay in my lane next time and also not make judgmental comments! My sincere apologies.

Re: Fandoms to Nom for 2020 Exchanges

(Anonymous) 2020-01-16 06:56 am (UTC)(link)
Well, at least I can avoid you now, so thanks for the anonfail.

Re: Fandoms to Nom for 2020 Exchanges

(Anonymous) 2020-01-16 08:50 am (UTC)(link)
Please tell me who.

Re: Fandoms to Nom for 2020 Exchanges

(Anonymous) 2020-01-16 10:29 pm (UTC)(link)
I would very much like to avoid this person too, so please tell us who they are. If you for whatever reason want to protect them, then I could give you a sock email? I'd just really prefer to never interact with them; I've dealt with enough antis in my fandoms already. Thanks in advance, coalie!

Re: Fandoms to Nom for 2020 Exchanges

(Anonymous) 2020-01-16 10:37 pm (UTC)(link)
+1

I can also give an email if you would rather that.

Re: Fandoms to Nom for 2020 Exchanges

(Anonymous) 2020-01-16 11:07 pm (UTC)(link)
justmcshane