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Coal All The Way
It's coal-bo time.
Yuleporn | Make the Yuletide Gay / TNB+ | Femslash Festivus
YuleBuilding | Two for One | Crueltide | Misses Clause
YuleSwaps | IF | Wrapping Paper
Yuletide Discord for Hippos. Google Group for PHs. F_F wiki for history.
Yuleporn | Make the Yuletide Gay / TNB+ | Femslash Festivus
YuleBuilding | Two for One | Crueltide | Misses Clause
YuleSwaps | IF | Wrapping Paper
Yuletide Discord for Hippos. Google Group for PHs. F_F wiki for history.

Yuletiding reflections?
(Anonymous) 2020-01-01 12:21 am (UTC)(link)Re: Yuletiding reflections?
(Anonymous) 2020-01-01 12:25 am (UTC)(link)I think there is less anon discussion for sure. But memes have become really bitter/jealous so the positive, want to hype goodfic coalies don’t engage with fic recs/talk in those spaces anymore. The trolls won that battle.
Re: Yuletiding reflections?
(Anonymous) 2020-01-01 12:33 am (UTC)(link)I’ve been on Coal since the beginning, and while it was always a place to escape the Cult of Nice, it wasn’t full of people actively trying to start wank about ridiculous shit like it is now. There was more of a feeling of genuine community, I think. These days I rarely participate here, I just lurk, because I feel like a lot of the fun parts of Coal (3T1L, letter reviewing, writing sprints, secret codes in letters to show you were a coalie) are just gone or are drowned out by tedious and repetitive wank. It’s a shame!
Re: Yuletiding reflections?
(Anonymous) 2020-01-01 12:54 am (UTC)(link)Re: Yuletiding reflections?
(Anonymous) 2020-01-01 01:07 am (UTC)(link)Re: Yuletiding reflections?
(Anonymous) 2020-01-01 01:02 am (UTC)(link)Re: Yuletiding reflections?
(Anonymous) 2020-01-01 12:55 am (UTC)(link)Re: Yuletiding reflections?
(Anonymous) 2020-01-01 01:03 am (UTC)(link)The thing about coal (namely this 2.0 reboot) is that it doesn’t have to be about wank. The game where people rating their treating order, talk about what good letters and good commenters they like, etc are all positive. Most of what people come here for is positive based. There are some people that want wank (or feel that there’s no point in positive anon spaces because it is all things you can say in namespace) and so they do two things: make threads like bad letters or which fics suck, which is negative but at least contained, and then they will butt into positive threads and give their unwanted opinion (“you may like x for being a long commenter but I actually hate long comments and thing x does this for performative attention”, “why would anyone want to write for someone with a letter that is 10x the minimum”, “i thought this fic sucked and why write x bottom? what a waste”) that adds nothing to the conversation beyond undermining the OPs opinion, and that sort of thing/entitlement (“we’re in a hatecomm anyway and if you didnt want random opinions then why post?”) to be nasty is what makes coal undesirable for happy discussion. A wanky thread or two is fine, but if you can’t even have a positive one then you stop trying to share positive content.
Re: Yuletiding reflections?
(Anonymous) 2020-01-01 01:35 am (UTC)(link)I'm inclined to not rec anything on anon memes because I don't want to expose fics I like (and their authors) to people responding that it was overrated or didn't conform to their exact preferences or whatever. I wish there were a way to rec things without people jumping on them that also didn't require an account in namespace.
(As an aside, I once got a comment from a non-logged-in user that started off with something like "I saw a rec on FFA and thought it must have been exaggerating how good the fic was, but it actually delivered" and I was slightly annoyed by it. Saying that on FFA is one thing, but what's the point of saying it in a comment?)
Re: Yuletiding reflections?
(Anonymous) 2020-01-02 04:01 am (UTC)(link)Re: Yuletiding reflections?
(Anonymous) 2020-01-02 04:03 am (UTC)(link)/genuine question bc I don’t get how this conspiracy theory works
Re: Yuletiding reflections?
(Anonymous) 2020-01-02 04:11 am (UTC)(link)Re: Yuletiding reflections?
(Anonymous) 2020-01-02 04:24 am (UTC)(link)I think I have surely done enough exchanges to be in the exchange clique, but it turned out I'd never even heard of the vast majority of the authors I recced.
Re: Yuletiding reflections?
(Anonymous) 2020-01-02 01:57 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Yuletiding reflections?
(Anonymous) 2020-01-01 12:25 am (UTC)(link)No comment on quality, I am (obvs) just scanning them to see if my story and/or gift are on them, of course.
Re: Yuletiding reflections?
(Anonymous) 2020-01-01 12:27 am (UTC)(link)https://unofficialyuletide.tumblr.com/