Re: Yuletiding reflections?

(Anonymous) 2020-01-01 01:03 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt

The thing about coal (namely this 2.0 reboot) is that it doesn’t have to be about wank. The game where people rating their treating order, talk about what good letters and good commenters they like, etc are all positive. Most of what people come here for is positive based. There are some people that want wank (or feel that there’s no point in positive anon spaces because it is all things you can say in namespace) and so they do two things: make threads like bad letters or which fics suck, which is negative but at least contained, and then they will butt into positive threads and give their unwanted opinion (“you may like x for being a long commenter but I actually hate long comments and thing x does this for performative attention”, “why would anyone want to write for someone with a letter that is 10x the minimum”, “i thought this fic sucked and why write x bottom? what a waste”) that adds nothing to the conversation beyond undermining the OPs opinion, and that sort of thing/entitlement (“we’re in a hatecomm anyway and if you didnt want random opinions then why post?”) to be nasty is what makes coal undesirable for happy discussion. A wanky thread or two is fine, but if you can’t even have a positive one then you stop trying to share positive content.