I don't think "I checked through the mods and the recip okayed it" counts as skirting a DNW. Clarifying the DNW is generally good, just writing something that skirts the DNW is highly risky.
If these had been my DNWs, I would have said "hell no" to at least two of these and would have reacted very badly if someone had written it without asking.
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I don't think "I checked through the mods and the recip okayed it" counts as skirting a DNW. Clarifying the DNW is generally good, just writing something that skirts the DNW is highly risky.
If these had been my DNWs, I would have said "hell no" to at least two of these and would have reacted very badly if someone had written it without asking.