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coalie ([personal profile] coalcube) wrote in [community profile] coaltide2021-10-13 07:35 pm
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Re: Kinks that are opt in/opt out

(Anonymous) 2021-10-15 05:51 am (UTC)(link)
In Yuletide, anything NC-17 is probably opt-in. If you don't mention wanting sex in your letter you probably won't get anything explicit.

I've definitely written porn for Yuletide unprompted. imo, if you're asking for shipfic and not specifying a heat level, then you're implicitly requesting any and all ratings.

Re: Kinks that are opt in/opt out

(Anonymous) 2021-10-15 01:08 pm (UTC)(link)
No, I don't agree. A failure to DNW any given thing is not an "implicit request" for it.

Re: Kinks that are opt in/opt out

(Anonymous) 2021-10-15 02:44 pm (UTC)(link)
nc

I meaaaaannnnnnn, a failure to specifically DNW a whole rating class is different than failing to DNW puppy play, or some other specific kink, imo. Personally, I'd probably not give anything beyond canon-typical where it wasn't specifically requested, but porn isn't always strictly opt-in.

Re: Kinks that are opt in/opt out

(Anonymous) 2021-10-15 02:49 pm (UTC)(link)
AYRT

I didn't say it was as a rule. I mean, I don't interpret a failure to DNW a Harry Potter crossover as an implicit request for it, or a failure to DNW scat as an implicit request for it, or etc.

In the specific situation where a recip requests shipfic and doesn't give any further info about how sexy or not sexy they want that shipfic, though, I do assume that the recip doesn't have a strong preference in either direction.

Re: Kinks that are opt in/opt out

(Anonymous) 2021-10-15 05:52 pm (UTC)(link)
Na if I have a prompt that's literally just the pairing tag, agreed. Honestæy I read a blank or pairing-only request as the same as an "anything goes" letter.

But if there are actual prompts and they're not porny, then I would assume the person isn't looking for porn? (Which doesn't mean no sex, but there's a difference between a plot-relevant/canon-level r-rated scene and smutfic.)

Re: Kinks that are opt in/opt out

(Anonymous) 2021-10-15 10:28 pm (UTC)(link)
This is fine imo