This is Yuletide, everybody make a scene

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I am the sock with the tear-away face

Low-effort with your gift and gone without a trace

I am the "who" when you call, "Who does an exchange without acknowledging their gift?"
I am the wanker blowing through your fics comments
I am the coalie dragging your letter at night
Filling your exchange to the brim with fright!

This is Coaltide!

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Sign-ups: Friday 16 October to Monday 26 October

Assignments out: between 26 & 28 October

Default deadline: Friday 11 December

Assignment Deadline: Friday 18 December

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Re: Is an AO3 account not enough?

[(Anonymous)]

Nice try, but I've never had a less than thrilled recip (my recips have all been multi-paragraph with quotes and multiple things they loved and didn't know they wanted until I have it to them) and, again, I don't post stories-i-mostly-wrote-for-me until the recipe already has a main gift.

Re: Is an AO3 account not enough?

[(Anonymous)]

NC. You don't carry these incredibly unsettling stalking habits over into you real-life relationships do you?

Your posts here, where you righteously defend your behavior, make you sound like a nightmare with serious control issues.

Re: Is an AO3 account not enough?

[(Anonymous)]

CYRT

You're reading a whole lot into this, aren't you?

But to answer your question: No, I don't stalk or "stalk" people in real life.

I do have a fantastic memory for things people around me like, off-hand mentions of nichey preferences, interests and favorites, and hyperfocus on sourcing the perfect gift for the person I'm gifting. Sorry if you think that's creepy, I guess?

Re: Is an AO3 account not enough?

[(Anonymous)]

CYRT. My very worst YT recipients, including those who never said thank you, have dozens of non-exchange stories on AO3 and have regularly-updated Tumblr/DW/LJ accounts. My YT recipients who have left the best feedback and comments have had little to no Tumblr/DW/LJ presence, and one actually had a completely-empty AO3 account prior to that YT. All wrote great DYW letters.

To have gone into YT those years where my recipient had a lack of internet presence with a downer attitude would have done all of those awesome recipients a serious disservice.

This thread should have demonstrated clearly to you that a lot of people don't link other platforms to their AO3 identity, mostly for reasons of privacy, and that the content you'll find on the other platforms some people do link their AO3 to will be of little to no use to their YT writer.

I have ADHD so have to deal with hyperfocus daily. What I'm "reading into" is what sounds an intense dislike for any situation you can't control, including by knowing as much information as possible. Just chill out and enjoy YT, okay?

Re: Is an AO3 account not enough?

[(Anonymous)]

The thing is, just because they talked about liking the thing before or in certain context, doesn't mean they are in the mood for it now or for that specific fandom/characters. I don't do AO3 bookmarks in part because of wild assumptions I've seen around based on them (and not just in the context of the exchanges). My mood/preferences vary wildly and I have a lot of "I don't usually like this thing, but this one fic works for me" moments too. I'd rather not have a "pleasant surprise" I forgot to explicitly DNW - or merely didn't ask for because I didn't feel like it - sprung on me because someone feels they deduced what I really want, thanks.

And anyway, it's supposed to be for your recip, not for feeding your self-image of the most perfect gift-giver ever. And I say this as someone who does make note of things like that for social purposes irl. There are limits. For a fic exchange, someone with a long letter really doesn't need to give you anything else.

Re: Is an AO3 account not enough?

[(Anonymous)]

lol