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coalie ([personal profile] coalcube) wrote in [community profile] coaltide2020-01-01 04:21 pm
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Offseason #1

Use this post for any exchanges running from January onwards into the first quarter of the year. Try to keep final Yuletide thoughts in the last coal post of 2019 for ease of conversation.

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(Anonymous) 2020-01-10 08:52 pm (UTC)(link)
AMAB women don’t experience male privilege you doofus, being held to the standards of toxic masculinity and gender essentialism as a child is not good or positive for anyone, regardless of their gender identity or designation at birth. Go work in dismantling toxic masculinity so that NO ONE is taught the harmful gender stereotypes that you claim to give a fuck about rather than attacking other women for not being the kind of woman you think they should be.

(Anonymous) 2020-01-10 09:00 pm (UTC)(link)
...this is literally just "patriarchy hurts men too," dude. Sure there are ways in which being raised to be a man can fuck someone up, but it doesn't disprove the existence of male privilege. Which, as activists, it's irresponsible to deny.

(Anonymous) 2020-01-10 09:02 pm (UTC)(link)
attacking other women for not being the kind of woman you think they should be.

I feel like you have fundamentally misunderstood the conversation.

(Anonymous) 2020-01-10 09:06 pm (UTC)(link)
+1 There's no "should" here.

(Anonymous) 2020-01-10 09:18 pm (UTC)(link)
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(Anonymous) 2020-01-10 10:41 pm (UTC)(link)
You don't understand the basic concept of male privilege nor feminism as a movement.