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coalie ([personal profile] coalcube) wrote in [community profile] coaltide2020-01-01 04:21 pm
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Offseason #1

Use this post for any exchanges running from January onwards into the first quarter of the year. Try to keep final Yuletide thoughts in the last coal post of 2019 for ease of conversation.

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Re: Chocolate Box - Letter 3T1L

(Anonymous) 2020-01-09 05:37 am (UTC)(link)
jsyk, trans people aren't actually just a fandom thing? that sounds like an asshole-y thing to say, but i mean it sincerely. if fandom is a large part of your exposure to anglo-queer understandings, it might not be obvious.

Re: Chocolate Box - Letter 3T1L

(Anonymous) 2020-01-09 05:47 am (UTC)(link)
I think it may be location/generational! I did not know people thought like this, but I will do some reading.

Re: Chocolate Box - Letter 3T1L

(Anonymous) 2020-01-09 05:48 am (UTC)(link)
dc

There is no word in this discourse for the group of women that you would use "lesbian" to refer to. Other than, sometimes, "terfs."

Re: Chocolate Box - Letter 3T1L

(Anonymous) 2020-01-09 05:52 am (UTC)(link)
And the gays?

Re: Chocolate Box - Letter 3T1L

(Anonymous) 2020-01-09 05:53 am (UTC)(link)
"TEHM," which is how we know that "TERF" is totally a descriptor of someone's politics, not their sexuality.

Re: Chocolate Box - Letter 3T1L

(Anonymous) 2020-01-09 05:55 am (UTC)(link)
I think you’re being sarcastic?

Re: Chocolate Box - Letter 3T1L

(Anonymous) 2020-01-09 05:57 am (UTC)(link)
hi troll

Re: Chocolate Box - Letter 3T1L

(Anonymous) 2020-01-09 06:00 am (UTC)(link)
No? Coalie wanted to know if there was a word for someone attracted to the same sex, not gender.