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Offseason #1
Use this post for any exchanges running from January onwards into the first quarter of the year. Try to keep final Yuletide thoughts in the last coal post of 2019 for ease of conversation.
Coal Friending Meme
2020 NYR Collection + 2019 App
Yuletide, Exchanges After Dark, & FFA Discords.
Coal Friending Meme
2020 NYR Collection + 2019 App
Yuletide, Exchanges After Dark, & FFA Discords.
Re: Venting
(Anonymous) 2020-01-06 06:45 pm (UTC)(link)I know I could "guarantee" a gift for one of my rarest fandoms by just asking for them, but I personally am not comfortable with that method.
I always do that, because I know I would be disappointed with a gift in my bigger fandoms. I tried it a couple of times, and I realized the method wasn't working for me because I was so much more critical of those gifts than gifts in my rarest fandoms. I'd rather be a frequent IPH and receive gifts that make me happy than to mentally be "oh wow, this is so much worse than the average fandom output" about my large fandom gifts.