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[(Anonymous)]

Coalie, where the fuck are these 'even shittier person' accusations coming from? What exactly has she done?

[(Anonymous)]

you'd have to be a pretty shitty person to tell someone with a miscarriage dnw that the fic they got doesn't count since it only featured miscarriage in a discussion. and that's just one instance.

[(Anonymous)]

Do we know exactly what was said and what the situation was?

[(Anonymous)]

Yes, we do.

[(Anonymous)]

+ fucking one

[(Anonymous)]

You would, but what actually happened? Do we have the text of that conversation?

[(Anonymous)]

You people are fucking ridiculous. You want everyone to literally post the full emails, thus outing themselves completely (thanks to Morbane anonfailing we know she reads both Coal and FFA). But I'm sure that wouldn't be enough for the Blind Defense Squad; at that point you'd claim the email was Photoshopped and demand that the recips gave out their email addresses and passwords so that you could log in for your so-called receipts.

[(Anonymous)]

I'm not defending her blindly, coalie. Nor am I looking for receipts to that degree, though the case of the miscarriage DNW is probably specific enough that she would already know who that refers to. This is just not my personal experience of her as somebody who has received a fic including a DNW and the difference in reaction surprises me. I seem to have stepped into a minefield by asking this, however, so I'll leave it at that.

[(Anonymous)]

you: what actually happened? Do we have the text of that conversation?

also you: Nor am I looking for receipts to that degree

hmmmmmmmmmmmm

[(Anonymous)]

Text of conversation != account access or it didn't happen.

[(Anonymous)]

Account access ≠ the only thing that was said, you cherry-picking moron.

[(Anonymous)]

I don't need it. I've chosen to take that person at their word. It's not like this is out of character and unbelievable. If it was one instance of this kind of thing, I'd be more skeptical.

[(Anonymous)]

Except it's out of character from my interactions with her as a mod, which is why I'm interested! I'm just wondering if it was literally 'Morbane said the miscarriage DNW wasn't violated because it was just a discussion about miscarriage and not a miscarriage happening' (my experience is she errs on the recip's side in those cases, so I'm surprised by this), or if there's a possibility she misunderstood, or she replied awkwardly and that was misunderstood, or if there's more to the situation like the DNWs not being in the sign-up. I don't understand why we're assuming bad faith, which is why I wonder what was said.

[(Anonymous)]

"I don't understand why we're assuming bad faith"

Because MULTIPLE people have brought stories like this to the light, both last year and this year. You obviously got lucky, which is great for you, but it's ridiculous to sit there claiming everyone is lying and "assuming" things.

[(Anonymous)]

When you say MULTIPLE people, do you mean namespace people or anonmeme wankers who could all be the same person?

[(Anonymous)]

Wow, you seriously couldn't come up with something better than that utterly pathetic defense?

[(Anonymous)]

What defense? Is it all anonmeme rumors or not?

[(Anonymous)]

wtf are you even here if everyone on anonmeme are just liars spreading false ~rumors

[(Anonymous)]

I like wanking, just like you.

[(Anonymous)]

As has already been stated in this very thread, it can never be anything but "anonmeme rumors" unless people literally give you their email log-in info.

You're being a complete idiot about this, but I guess it's not surprising.

[(Anonymous)]

It's all anon meme ~people who all sound kinda the same. I'd say the vast majority of the whining is one person, with maybe one other account, and none with enough detail for anyone to actually judge for themselves whether they agree with the complaint. The fact that none of this has ever come up in namespace, unlike basically all other exchange mods that get complained about a lot, feels pretty telling.

[(Anonymous)]

Right, they all "sound the same". What a fantastic and convincing argument. Plenty of people have been able to give enough details for people to judge for themselves, even while trying to preserve their anonymity, so I don't know what you're talking about. I'd hardly call it "whining" either, but the fact that you refer to it as such is what's "pretty telling" here. And no, most complaints about mods don't happen in namespace; you're wrong about that, too. It doesn't matter if it's Morbane and hhertzof, VampirePaladin, Pumpkinkingmod, or whoever, the vast majority of it is anonymous no matter what you try to claim.

[(Anonymous)]

Oh come on, coalie, jump on board the wagon where we all know it's just [i]one person[/i] for the last several years who complains about morbane and then replies to their own posts with several different scenarios and interactions that all portray morbane in a negative light, 'cause it's all about one obsessed nonny who has the time and desire to make up all the stories that morbane reads in these comms given how often they've anonfailed and could easily refute if they so choose but never does.

I mean personally if I was being portrayed as someone so insensitive that ignored the pain miscarriage caused them to allow that DNW when I [i]did not[/i], I'd speak up and explain the situation. But maybe the one obsessed and awful person comes up with these scenarios so rapid-fire that morbane can't keep up.

Sure. It's all one person. You have to believe that or you're apparently just a hater.

/s

Or you can apply some logic and Occam's Razor, but that's [i]hard[/i] and sometimes you get answers you don't like.

[(Anonymous)]

Which forum uses square brackets?

[(Anonymous)]

I like that the cyrt never actually replied to this. Gee, I wonder why!

+1 on mod complaining almost always happening anonymously.