Not really. Saying "fandom is dominated by M/M, ugh fandom misogyny" doesn't implicate any single person. If you feel you are being personally accused of being a misogynist, I don't know, talk to a priest? Literally anything but howling about how you don't know how much activism I do IRL how dare you you don't know what's in my heart blah blah blah. This is literally the phenomenon "hit dogs holler" describes. You're taking a generalized statement deeply personally and pretending it was intended as individual condemnation.