Re: Diamonds

(Anonymous) 2019-12-29 08:53 am (UTC)(link)
If you see red flags and don’t want to mess with her, that is really easy for you to do. You don’t share fandoms, you let the mod know not to let her match to you in case she offers yours, and you are golden. Not a single person is saying for you not to engage with them if you think they are a full on white supremacist with Nazi ideology.

That doesn’t mean you get to make that decision for other people who see it as a normal small fandom behavior for someone trying to make their fandom happen when it never will. They are free to not care a wink and ignore them once they decide the fandom is/isn’t for them.

Dog whistling so much that people see anti red flags from you while you insist that you are the one person who does all this anti behavior yet isn’t a big wanky mess is gaslighting too, by that standard.

Re: Diamonds

(Anonymous) 2019-12-29 08:55 am (UTC)(link)
+1

(Except I don't think either is gaslighting.)

Re: Diamonds

(Anonymous) 2019-12-29 08:56 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt

(I don’t either.)

Re: Diamonds

(Anonymous) 2019-12-29 09:53 am (UTC)(link)
+1 Pretty much this.

Re: Diamonds

(Anonymous) 2019-12-29 04:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Dog whistling

Oh, the irony.