Re: Rules to stop wank

(Anonymous) 2019-12-27 06:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, this happened to me, and it was entirely do to carelessness.

Fortunately, it wasn't a stated DNW, though it was something they said they were not enthusiastic about. It happened because I'd written for them twice before, I wasn't paying close attention, and it was something I thought was harmless and vanilla. Even more fortunately, I gifted them something else, that they loved, that I had been working on but wasn't sure I would finish in time, in madness.

I've been doing exchanges for 15 years or so, and that year I was careless. It worked out fine, but that was sheer luck on my part. I would still be writing treats and NYRs to make up for it (out of guilt, not because I think the mods would have cared) if it had been even a whisker more serious or I hadn't been halfway through the treat and so gotten at least one thing right.