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It's coal-bo time.
Yuleporn | Make the Yuletide Gay / TNB+ | Femslash Festivus
YuleBuilding | Two for One | Crueltide | Misses Clause
YuleSwaps | IF | Wrapping Paper
Yuletide Discord for Hippos. Google Group for PHs. F_F wiki for history.
Yuleporn | Make the Yuletide Gay / TNB+ | Femslash Festivus
YuleBuilding | Two for One | Crueltide | Misses Clause
YuleSwaps | IF | Wrapping Paper
Yuletide Discord for Hippos. Google Group for PHs. F_F wiki for history.

Re: Retiring from Yuletide?
(Anonymous) 2019-12-26 02:04 pm (UTC)(link)Most people who are recipients are writers too, and vice versa. It's just that for a lot of us (not all of us, obviously), the "Yuletide experience" hinges on the gift.
Re: Retiring from Yuletide?
(Anonymous) 2019-12-26 02:12 pm (UTC)(link)Also, the writer has complete control over what they gift. Most of the fics that have been complained about here were because of spag or strange/odao/"some people would have assumed that was opt-in" authorial choices. The recip can't do much to control if they get a gift with those things, but the author can easily get a beta and make choices to avoid the other pitfalls if they aren't willing to risk their fic getting refused.
Re: Retiring from Yuletide?
(Anonymous) 2019-12-26 03:01 pm (UTC)(link)Also, if one is really concerned about seeing negative things about their fic, they can just, um, not go here?
Re: Retiring from Yuletide?
(Anonymous) 2019-12-26 03:11 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Retiring from Yuletide?
(Anonymous) 2019-12-26 02:15 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Retiring from Yuletide?
(Anonymous) 2019-12-26 02:21 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Retiring from Yuletide?
(Anonymous) 2019-12-26 02:25 pm (UTC)(link)Each to their own exchange experience, I suppose.
Re: Retiring from Yuletide?
(Anonymous) 2019-12-26 02:58 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Retiring from Yuletide?
(Anonymous) 2019-12-26 06:15 pm (UTC)(link)If you want a recip that obviously cares about authors and will write you feedback with as much consideration that I’m guessing you put into their stories, the top tier good commenter recips are known and right there. Treat them, game to match with them, etc. Again, you are in charge of your Yuletide experience. Recips can’t use the same type of agency to game themselves a good author. If bad recips bother you, get a good recip.
Re: Retiring from Yuletide?
(Anonymous) 2019-12-26 10:46 pm (UTC)(link)+100
I'm mostly in exchanges for the writing. I love getting good gifts, but a meh gift won't ruin my exchange the way a non-commentor/meh comment will. But that's why if I'm assigned to someone who, based on their history, is not a good commentor, I make sure to make time to write at least one treat for someone who is, so that I'm guaranteed some of the good feedback warm fuzzies for that exchange.
Re: Retiring from Yuletide?
(Anonymous) 2019-12-26 10:47 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Retiring from Yuletide?
(Anonymous) 2019-12-26 10:49 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Retiring from Yuletide?
(Anonymous) 2019-12-26 10:51 pm (UTC)(link)Yup!
Re: Retiring from Yuletide?
(Anonymous) 2019-12-26 10:57 pm (UTC)(link)Yup. And worth pointing out that gaming towards a good commenter is hella easy in every other multifandom exchange that's not Yuletide because requests are visible during sign ups.
I meanwhile was trying to get assigned to the ultra-rare request of my dreams this Yuletide and got a recip whose comment rep is legendary instead but who was requesting a different fandom that I was less enthusiastic about writing. ::sadface::
Re: Retiring from Yuletide?
(Anonymous) 2019-12-26 11:20 pm (UTC)(link)But gaming towards good commenters only works if you share fandoms in common. With Yuletide, you might not know or be able to access their rare fandoms.
Re: Retiring from Yuletide?
(Anonymous) 2019-12-26 11:27 pm (UTC)(link)If you’re only willing to write the fandoms you came into Yuletide feeling passionate about and won’t get into new things, then you need to compromise. Your inflexibility is a choice, and one of the side effects of that may mean you will get a recip that doesn’t communicate the way you want or who doesn’t like the fandom(/your fic) as much as you do.
Re: Retiring from Yuletide?
(Anonymous) 2019-12-26 10:12 pm (UTC)(link)A lot of us use Yuletide as a prompt generator. We're mainly here for the writing, not the receiving.
Re: Retiring from Yuletide?
(Anonymous) 2019-12-26 10:24 pm (UTC)(link)