All exchanges should work like Yuletide and should not allow you to see requests, and on top of that they should forbid public letters because you should just write for anyone who requests the things you're willing to offer. You should not be allowed to browse requests and decide which recipients you'd be happy to match with and which you'd rather pass on. There is no good reason to not want to match with someone, and if you propose a reason, we'll explain why none of your reasons matter and besides you're being mean like those jerk girls back in high school for not wanting to write porn specifically for me. My DNWs are sparkly and pure and your preference to write for someone who's requesting the het ships you ship while mysteriously DNWing all the slash ships you ship doesn't matter. Only I matter. So you can't ever game away from me or you are a Bad Egg.