I explicitly didn't give them any lessons or advice, and I don't think many other nonnies did either. I was merely responding to the idea that doing anything else but dropping the canon is somehow railroading and can't possibly lead anywhere good. If they're willing to drop the fandom and that makes them happy, then that's the right thing for them to do! But I disagree with their judgement about any other approach. Other people handle it differently and that's fine.
Re: Reveals are here
I explicitly didn't give them any lessons or advice, and I don't think many other nonnies did either. I was merely responding to the idea that doing anything else but dropping the canon is somehow railroading and can't possibly lead anywhere good. If they're willing to drop the fandom and that makes them happy, then that's the right thing for them to do! But I disagree with their judgement about any other approach. Other people handle it differently and that's fine.