Lol, everyone should leave each other alone, but one side is free to post all kinds of shit about the other, because it's their experience and the other side must shut up and not respond.

JFC anyone that thinks they can tell what people think about women and whether or not they have internalised misogyny based solely on fannish output or consumption -with no knowledge of what they read or write outside of fandom and whether or not they're involved in activism that doesn't involve shrieking about other women's porn preferences, is a person that's too fucking dumb to waste time on, and they should shut the fuck up and rejoin the conversation when they've got more than one working braincell