I had someone give me a treat one time that technically incorporated a prompt I gave but did it in a way that was totally counter to everything else in my request. (Like if I said I wanted fluff and nice things for this request, and they wrote the spanking I asked for but wrote it super angsty with a lot of self-hatred.)
And it was like, you could have given this to someone else! Multiple other people asked for this ship and would have loved this treat! It felt like spitefic honestly, although I think it probably wasn't. It ruined that whole exchange for me that year.
Re: Intimidation
I had someone give me a treat one time that technically incorporated a prompt I gave but did it in a way that was totally counter to everything else in my request. (Like if I said I wanted fluff and nice things for this request, and they wrote the spanking I asked for but wrote it super angsty with a lot of self-hatred.)
And it was like, you could have given this to someone else! Multiple other people asked for this ship and would have loved this treat! It felt like spitefic honestly, although I think it probably wasn't. It ruined that whole exchange for me that year.