I didn't say it was as a rule. I mean, I don't interpret a failure to DNW a Harry Potter crossover as an implicit request for it, or a failure to DNW scat as an implicit request for it, or etc.
In the specific situation where a recip requests shipfic and doesn't give any further info about how sexy or not sexy they want that shipfic, though, I do assume that the recip doesn't have a strong preference in either direction.
Re: Kinks that are opt in/opt out
I didn't say it was as a rule. I mean, I don't interpret a failure to DNW a Harry Potter crossover as an implicit request for it, or a failure to DNW scat as an implicit request for it, or etc.
In the specific situation where a recip requests shipfic and doesn't give any further info about how sexy or not sexy they want that shipfic, though, I do assume that the recip doesn't have a strong preference in either direction.