I DNW specific kinks for two reasons. 1. It's a hard squick that I never want under any circumstances to the point that I feel the need to mention it, but not necessarily because I assume someone is going to write it for me if I don't. 2. It's related to things that I like, but aren't included in things I like. I could understand where someone would think that because I'm interested in Kink A, I'd also like adjacent Kink B, but it's actually not my thing.
Re: Kinks that are opt in/opt out